Marriages performed in Romania
The Government of Romania legally recognizes only civil marriage ceremonies that are performed in the City Hall or the Sector Office in the area where the Romanian citizen resides. Many couples also choose to hold a religious ceremony after the completion of the civil ceremony. The following documents are needed by the Vital Statistics Office of the Mayor's Office to authorize marriage to a Romanian citizen:
=>Certified copy of the foreigner birth certificate with a notarized translation in Romania (obtained from a Romanian notary) or, if the birth certificate is not available, a notarized statement given at a Romanian notary public summarizing the data in the foreigner's passport and including the parents' names (accepting such a statement in place of a birth certificate is at the discretion of the Romanian authorities).
=>Notarized statement (affidavit) that the foreigner citizen is free to marry, obtained at the foreigner's Embassy in Romania.
=>Prenuptial Certificate (Health Certificate) for both the foreigner and the Romanian citizen, obtained from a clinic in the city where your marriage will take place.
=>Certified copy of proof of the termination of any and all previous marriages, with a translation in Romanian (i.e. divorce/annulment decrees, death certificates).
Marriages performed outside
Romania The documents required for a foreign national wishing to marry a Romanian citizen at the Romanian Diplomatic Missions abroad, are the following:
=>Certificate issued by the Diplomatic Mission of the country which the foreign national belongs to, attesting the fact that the base conditions required by national law are accomplished and there is no impediment to the marriage;
=>Marriage Declaration authenticated by the Diplomatic Mission of the country which the foreign national belongs to, attesting the fact that this person never been married (containing, if necessary, the divorce sentence or the certificate of death of the ex spouse);
=>Copy of passport;
=>Copy of birth certificate, with a certified translation into Romanian;
=>Medical certificate attesting the state of health with particular remark that the foreign national is medically fit for marriage.
I Always Need Your Help Ya ALLAH
Selasa, 03 Agustus 2010
Kamis, 22 Juli 2010
At myOFFICE,BRAGA
Morning......
in the middle room, full of air conditioning....cold..cozy chair...
yes..but i already bored here..
i dont know still many much task on my face but i couldn't working..
i dont know i cant focus..what's happen on me????
listening music from my phone on front of the computer..and realy absurd..arrrggghhhhhh
i cant thinking..
crowded here but i feel like alone..just can vacant, gazing this screen..thinking what can i do right now..arrghhh
huuuhhhffftttttt.......not happy, not sad, so?????
if i have choice to choose and then one of them is passed out..i wanna choose that..haha..
oke leave it..i wanna working first..
have done... wait the next task..
now??????emmm what?
friday it will be good becoz tommorow i will be free..
weekend ouhhh it's so fast i will be passing all the day this week..
emmm i think today after i've done with my job i will go to someplace..where i was born there..yes i will go to the other city ,it's Sukabumi city..
in the middle room, full of air conditioning....cold..cozy chair...
yes..but i already bored here..
i dont know still many much task on my face but i couldn't working..
i dont know i cant focus..what's happen on me????
listening music from my phone on front of the computer..and realy absurd..arrrggghhhhhh
i cant thinking..
crowded here but i feel like alone..just can vacant, gazing this screen..thinking what can i do right now..arrghhh
huuuhhhffftttttt.......not happy, not sad, so?????
if i have choice to choose and then one of them is passed out..i wanna choose that..haha..
oke leave it..i wanna working first..
have done... wait the next task..
now??????emmm what?
friday it will be good becoz tommorow i will be free..
weekend ouhhh it's so fast i will be passing all the day this week..
emmm i think today after i've done with my job i will go to someplace..where i was born there..yes i will go to the other city ,it's Sukabumi city..
Jumat, 02 Juli 2010
why muslims not eat pork??
this is the searching result
Brief Answer
Muslims don't eat Pork for the following reasons:
If God, The Creator and the All-Wise, commands us, explicitly, not to eat Pork, then we should obey Him without any debate and without asking why.
Forbidding eating pork goes back to the time of Abraham. Pork is forbidden also in Judaism. Some Christians believe that it is forbidden also in Christianity which is logic as it is forbidden in Judaism (before Christianity) and in Islam (after Christianity.
Pig cannot be slaughtered at the neck due to its anatomy. To slaughter any animal, Muslims makes an incision through the jugular veins, leaving all other veins and organs intact; thus causing the death of the animal by a total loss of blood from the body. This is similar to the Kosher laws of Judaism. Chemical analysis of this blood shows that it contains an abundance of uric acid, a chemical substance which can be injurious to human health.
There are some evidences that eating pork has negative impact on health.
Answer A
Muslims do not eat pork because it is Haraam to eat the meat of the swine which is believed to not be clean. That which is permissible is termed Halaal, but that which is not permissible is termed Haraam. It is the Qu'ran which draws the distinction between these two, and the meat of the pig is Haraam.
It is written in the Qu'ran: "Forbidden to you are: dead meat, blood, the flesh of swine, and that on which hath been invoked a name other than that of Allah." (Al-Ma'idah:3) This tradition goes back to the time of Abraham. In fact even in Leviticus we read: …and the swine, as he divideth the hoof, and be cloven footed, yet he cheweth not the cud; he is unclean to you. Of their flesh shall ye not eat, and their carcass shall ye not touch, they are unclean to you." (Leviticus chapter 11 verse 7 and 8).
Furthermore, a pig cannot be slaughtered at the neck due to its anatomy and to slaughter any animal Muslims makes an incision through the jugular veins, leaving all other veins and organs intact; thus causing the death of the animal by a total loss of blood from the body, rather than an injury to any vital organ as Islam has prohibited blood of any type. A Muslim reasons that if the pig was to be slaughtered and fit for human consumption the Creator would have provided it with a neck. This is similar to the Kosher laws of Judaism.
Interestingly enough, chemical analysis of this blood shows that it contains an abundance of uric acid, a chemical substance which can be injurious to human health. Also, there are many harmful effects of the consumption of pork, in any form, be it pork chops, ham, bacon. Medical science finds that there is a risk for various diseases as the pig is found to be a host for many parasites and potential diseases as the pig's biochemistry excretes only 2% of its total uric acid content, the remaining 98% remains as an integral part of the body. I imagine that in antiquity it would have been noticed that those who frequently ate this meat were subject to various diseases and maladies.
Muslims are forbidden by god to eat pork.
Answer B
For Muslims only those animals are allowed which eat grass. have Hoofs and have only one set of jaws. Pigs don't fit for about rules and another problem they eat garbage and stuff. That's why they are prohibited to eat.
Answer C
We as Muslims believe that Allah (SW) is a Legislator, not like any other human legislator. He is God who is All Knowing and when he commands us, so that is definitely in our favour, even if our limited minds are unable to understand why. Sometimes we make trials to understand why, and we can fully or partially succeed, but sometimes we still don't understand why; that is to say the above answers could be fully correct or partially correct, because there could be other reasons that Allah (SW) knows but we don't.
If we made a simple test getting a cow, a goat and a pig, starved all of them for a day and kept them in a close place and offered them green grass in one heap and another heap of rotten flesh, bones and blood and see what will happen. I do believe the pork by its nature will go to the rubbish while the others will eat from the grass.
If this is the nature of this being, so the probability of ingesting pathogenic organisms and parasites available in the rubbish will be much higher than the other Herbivora animals, thus in the sense of probability, the pig will be more responsible for transferring diseases to human beings than the other allowable to eat animals.
If somebody told me that we have farms where we offer only grass for our pigs, so no disease transfer is possible, I will tell him that Allah (SW) is a Legislator who when decrees, so that is for all humans not you alone. Can you guarantee that poor people who are in drought will be having your farms to properly take care of their pigs? they will definitely let it eat the rubbish, and accordingly will be more liable to diseases, that is possibly why Allah (SW) wants to save them.
it's written in Al Qur'an
Al Baqarah : 173
إِنَّمَا حَرَّمَ عَلَيْكُمُ الْمَيْتَةَ وَالدَّمَ وَلَحْمَ الْخِنْزِيرِ وَمَا أُهِلَّ بِهِ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ فَمَنِ اضْطُرَّ غَيْرَ بَاغٍ وَلا عَادٍ فَلا إِثْمَ عَلَيْهِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ (١٧٣)
173. He has forbidden You Only the Maytatah (dead animals), and blood, and the flesh of swine, and that which is slaughtered as a scrifice for others than Allâh (or has been slaughtered for idols, etc., on which Allâh's Name has not been mentioned while slaughtering). but if one is forced by necessity without wilful disobedience nor transgressing due limits, Then there is no sin on Him. Truly, Allâh is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
Al Maa'idah : 3
حُرِّمَتْ عَلَيْكُمُ الْمَيْتَةُ وَالدَّمُ وَلَحْمُ الْخِنْزِيرِ وَمَا أُهِلَّ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ بِهِ وَالْمُنْخَنِقَةُ وَالْمَوْقُوذَةُ وَالْمُتَرَدِّيَةُ وَالنَّطِيحَةُ وَمَا أَكَلَ السَّبُعُ إِلا مَا ذَكَّيْتُمْ وَمَا ذُبِحَ عَلَى النُّصُبِ وَأَنْ تَسْتَقْسِمُوا بِالأزْلامِ ذَلِكُمْ فِسْقٌ الْيَوْمَ يَئِسَ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا مِنْ دِينِكُمْ فَلا تَخْشَوْهُمْ وَاخْشَوْنِ الْيَوْمَ أَكْمَلْتُ لَكُمْ دِينَكُمْ وَأَتْمَمْتُ عَلَيْكُمْ نِعْمَتِي وَرَضِيتُ لَكُمُ الإسْلامَ دِينًا فَمَنِ اضْطُرَّ فِي مَخْمَصَةٍ غَيْرَ مُتَجَانِفٍ لإثْمٍ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ (٣)
3. forbidden to You (for food) are: Al-Maytatah (the dead animals - cattle-beast not slaughtered), blood, the flesh of swine, and the meat of that which has been slaughtered as a sacrifice for others than Allâh, or has been slaughtered for idols, etc., or on which Allâh's Name has not been mentioned while slaughtering, and that which has been killed by strangling, or by a violent blow, or by a headlong fall, or by the goring of horns - and that which has been (partly) eaten by a wild animal - unless You are Able to slaughter it (before its death) and that which is sacrificed (slaughtered) on AnNusub (stone altars). (Forbidden) also is to use arrows seeking luck or decision, (all) that is Fisqun (disobedience of Allâh and sin). This day, those who disbelieved have given up All hope of Your religion, so fear them not, but fear Me. This day, I have perfected Your Religion for you, completed My Favour upon you, and have chosen for You Islâm as Your religion. but as for Him who is forced by Severe hunger, with no inclination to sin (such can eat These above-mentioned meats), Then surely, Allâh is OftForgiving, Most Merciful.
Al An'aam : 145
قُلْ لا أَجِدُ فِي مَا أُوحِيَ إِلَيَّ مُحَرَّمًا عَلَى طَاعِمٍ يَطْعَمُهُ إِلا أَنْ يَكُونَ مَيْتَةً أَوْ دَمًا مَسْفُوحًا أَوْ لَحْمَ خِنْزِيرٍ فَإِنَّهُ رِجْسٌ أَوْ فِسْقًا أُهِلَّ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ بِهِ فَمَنِ اضْطُرَّ غَيْرَ بَاغٍ وَلا عَادٍ فَإِنَّ رَبَّكَ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ (١٤٥)
145. Say (O Muhammad ): "I find not In that which has been inspired to Me anything forbidden to be eaten by one who wishes to eat it, unless it be Maytatah (a dead animal) or blood poured forth (by slaughtering or the like), or the flesh of swine (pork, etc.) for that surely is impure, or impious (unlawful) meat (of an animal) which is slaughtered as a sacrifice for others than Allâh (or has been slaughtered for idols, etc., or on which Allâh's Name has not been mentioned while slaughtering). but Whosoever is forced by necessity without wilful disobedience, nor transgressing due limits, (for Him) Certainly, Your Lord is OftForgiving, Most Merciful."
An Nahl : 115
إِنَّمَا حَرَّمَ عَلَيْكُمُ الْمَيْتَةَ وَالدَّمَ وَلَحْمَ الْخِنْزِيرِ وَمَا أُهِلَّ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ بِهِ فَمَنِ اضْطُرَّ غَيْرَ بَاغٍ وَلا عَادٍ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ (١١٥)
115. He has forbidden You Only Al-Maytatah (meat of a dead animal), blood, the flesh of swine, and any animal which is slaughtered as a sacrifice for others than Allâh (or has been slaughtered for idols etc. or on which Allâh's Name has not been mentioned while slaughtering). but if one is forced by necessity, without wilful disobedience, and not transgressing, then, Allâh is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
All of the reasons could be exactly or partially the right ones or still there could be other reasons that Allah (SW) knows but we don't, that Allah (SW) knows best.
Brief Answer
Muslims don't eat Pork for the following reasons:
If God, The Creator and the All-Wise, commands us, explicitly, not to eat Pork, then we should obey Him without any debate and without asking why.
Forbidding eating pork goes back to the time of Abraham. Pork is forbidden also in Judaism. Some Christians believe that it is forbidden also in Christianity which is logic as it is forbidden in Judaism (before Christianity) and in Islam (after Christianity.
Pig cannot be slaughtered at the neck due to its anatomy. To slaughter any animal, Muslims makes an incision through the jugular veins, leaving all other veins and organs intact; thus causing the death of the animal by a total loss of blood from the body. This is similar to the Kosher laws of Judaism. Chemical analysis of this blood shows that it contains an abundance of uric acid, a chemical substance which can be injurious to human health.
There are some evidences that eating pork has negative impact on health.
Answer A
Muslims do not eat pork because it is Haraam to eat the meat of the swine which is believed to not be clean. That which is permissible is termed Halaal, but that which is not permissible is termed Haraam. It is the Qu'ran which draws the distinction between these two, and the meat of the pig is Haraam.
It is written in the Qu'ran: "Forbidden to you are: dead meat, blood, the flesh of swine, and that on which hath been invoked a name other than that of Allah." (Al-Ma'idah:3) This tradition goes back to the time of Abraham. In fact even in Leviticus we read: …and the swine, as he divideth the hoof, and be cloven footed, yet he cheweth not the cud; he is unclean to you. Of their flesh shall ye not eat, and their carcass shall ye not touch, they are unclean to you." (Leviticus chapter 11 verse 7 and 8).
Furthermore, a pig cannot be slaughtered at the neck due to its anatomy and to slaughter any animal Muslims makes an incision through the jugular veins, leaving all other veins and organs intact; thus causing the death of the animal by a total loss of blood from the body, rather than an injury to any vital organ as Islam has prohibited blood of any type. A Muslim reasons that if the pig was to be slaughtered and fit for human consumption the Creator would have provided it with a neck. This is similar to the Kosher laws of Judaism.
Interestingly enough, chemical analysis of this blood shows that it contains an abundance of uric acid, a chemical substance which can be injurious to human health. Also, there are many harmful effects of the consumption of pork, in any form, be it pork chops, ham, bacon. Medical science finds that there is a risk for various diseases as the pig is found to be a host for many parasites and potential diseases as the pig's biochemistry excretes only 2% of its total uric acid content, the remaining 98% remains as an integral part of the body. I imagine that in antiquity it would have been noticed that those who frequently ate this meat were subject to various diseases and maladies.
Muslims are forbidden by god to eat pork.
Answer B
For Muslims only those animals are allowed which eat grass. have Hoofs and have only one set of jaws. Pigs don't fit for about rules and another problem they eat garbage and stuff. That's why they are prohibited to eat.
Answer C
We as Muslims believe that Allah (SW) is a Legislator, not like any other human legislator. He is God who is All Knowing and when he commands us, so that is definitely in our favour, even if our limited minds are unable to understand why. Sometimes we make trials to understand why, and we can fully or partially succeed, but sometimes we still don't understand why; that is to say the above answers could be fully correct or partially correct, because there could be other reasons that Allah (SW) knows but we don't.
If we made a simple test getting a cow, a goat and a pig, starved all of them for a day and kept them in a close place and offered them green grass in one heap and another heap of rotten flesh, bones and blood and see what will happen. I do believe the pork by its nature will go to the rubbish while the others will eat from the grass.
If this is the nature of this being, so the probability of ingesting pathogenic organisms and parasites available in the rubbish will be much higher than the other Herbivora animals, thus in the sense of probability, the pig will be more responsible for transferring diseases to human beings than the other allowable to eat animals.
If somebody told me that we have farms where we offer only grass for our pigs, so no disease transfer is possible, I will tell him that Allah (SW) is a Legislator who when decrees, so that is for all humans not you alone. Can you guarantee that poor people who are in drought will be having your farms to properly take care of their pigs? they will definitely let it eat the rubbish, and accordingly will be more liable to diseases, that is possibly why Allah (SW) wants to save them.
it's written in Al Qur'an
Al Baqarah : 173
إِنَّمَا حَرَّمَ عَلَيْكُمُ الْمَيْتَةَ وَالدَّمَ وَلَحْمَ الْخِنْزِيرِ وَمَا أُهِلَّ بِهِ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ فَمَنِ اضْطُرَّ غَيْرَ بَاغٍ وَلا عَادٍ فَلا إِثْمَ عَلَيْهِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ (١٧٣)
173. He has forbidden You Only the Maytatah (dead animals), and blood, and the flesh of swine, and that which is slaughtered as a scrifice for others than Allâh (or has been slaughtered for idols, etc., on which Allâh's Name has not been mentioned while slaughtering). but if one is forced by necessity without wilful disobedience nor transgressing due limits, Then there is no sin on Him. Truly, Allâh is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
Al Maa'idah : 3
حُرِّمَتْ عَلَيْكُمُ الْمَيْتَةُ وَالدَّمُ وَلَحْمُ الْخِنْزِيرِ وَمَا أُهِلَّ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ بِهِ وَالْمُنْخَنِقَةُ وَالْمَوْقُوذَةُ وَالْمُتَرَدِّيَةُ وَالنَّطِيحَةُ وَمَا أَكَلَ السَّبُعُ إِلا مَا ذَكَّيْتُمْ وَمَا ذُبِحَ عَلَى النُّصُبِ وَأَنْ تَسْتَقْسِمُوا بِالأزْلامِ ذَلِكُمْ فِسْقٌ الْيَوْمَ يَئِسَ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا مِنْ دِينِكُمْ فَلا تَخْشَوْهُمْ وَاخْشَوْنِ الْيَوْمَ أَكْمَلْتُ لَكُمْ دِينَكُمْ وَأَتْمَمْتُ عَلَيْكُمْ نِعْمَتِي وَرَضِيتُ لَكُمُ الإسْلامَ دِينًا فَمَنِ اضْطُرَّ فِي مَخْمَصَةٍ غَيْرَ مُتَجَانِفٍ لإثْمٍ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ (٣)
3. forbidden to You (for food) are: Al-Maytatah (the dead animals - cattle-beast not slaughtered), blood, the flesh of swine, and the meat of that which has been slaughtered as a sacrifice for others than Allâh, or has been slaughtered for idols, etc., or on which Allâh's Name has not been mentioned while slaughtering, and that which has been killed by strangling, or by a violent blow, or by a headlong fall, or by the goring of horns - and that which has been (partly) eaten by a wild animal - unless You are Able to slaughter it (before its death) and that which is sacrificed (slaughtered) on AnNusub (stone altars). (Forbidden) also is to use arrows seeking luck or decision, (all) that is Fisqun (disobedience of Allâh and sin). This day, those who disbelieved have given up All hope of Your religion, so fear them not, but fear Me. This day, I have perfected Your Religion for you, completed My Favour upon you, and have chosen for You Islâm as Your religion. but as for Him who is forced by Severe hunger, with no inclination to sin (such can eat These above-mentioned meats), Then surely, Allâh is OftForgiving, Most Merciful.
Al An'aam : 145
قُلْ لا أَجِدُ فِي مَا أُوحِيَ إِلَيَّ مُحَرَّمًا عَلَى طَاعِمٍ يَطْعَمُهُ إِلا أَنْ يَكُونَ مَيْتَةً أَوْ دَمًا مَسْفُوحًا أَوْ لَحْمَ خِنْزِيرٍ فَإِنَّهُ رِجْسٌ أَوْ فِسْقًا أُهِلَّ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ بِهِ فَمَنِ اضْطُرَّ غَيْرَ بَاغٍ وَلا عَادٍ فَإِنَّ رَبَّكَ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ (١٤٥)
145. Say (O Muhammad ): "I find not In that which has been inspired to Me anything forbidden to be eaten by one who wishes to eat it, unless it be Maytatah (a dead animal) or blood poured forth (by slaughtering or the like), or the flesh of swine (pork, etc.) for that surely is impure, or impious (unlawful) meat (of an animal) which is slaughtered as a sacrifice for others than Allâh (or has been slaughtered for idols, etc., or on which Allâh's Name has not been mentioned while slaughtering). but Whosoever is forced by necessity without wilful disobedience, nor transgressing due limits, (for Him) Certainly, Your Lord is OftForgiving, Most Merciful."
An Nahl : 115
إِنَّمَا حَرَّمَ عَلَيْكُمُ الْمَيْتَةَ وَالدَّمَ وَلَحْمَ الْخِنْزِيرِ وَمَا أُهِلَّ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ بِهِ فَمَنِ اضْطُرَّ غَيْرَ بَاغٍ وَلا عَادٍ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ (١١٥)
115. He has forbidden You Only Al-Maytatah (meat of a dead animal), blood, the flesh of swine, and any animal which is slaughtered as a sacrifice for others than Allâh (or has been slaughtered for idols etc. or on which Allâh's Name has not been mentioned while slaughtering). but if one is forced by necessity, without wilful disobedience, and not transgressing, then, Allâh is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
All of the reasons could be exactly or partially the right ones or still there could be other reasons that Allah (SW) knows but we don't, that Allah (SW) knows best.
Minggu, 27 Juni 2010
World????should i give up
بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيمِ (١)
(In the Name of Allâh, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful.)
(QS. Huud: 106-108)
فَأَمَّا الَّذِينَ شَقُوا فَفِي النَّارِ لَهُمْ فِيهَا زَفِيرٌ وَشَهِيقٌ (١٠٦)
106. as for those who are wretched, they will be In the Fire, sighing In a High and low tone.
خَالِدِينَ فِيهَا مَا دَامَتِ السَّمَاوَاتُ وَالأرْضُ إِلا مَا شَاءَ رَبُّكَ إِنَّ رَبَّكَ فَعَّالٌ لِمَا يُرِيدُ (١٠٧)
107. they will Dwell therein for All the time that the heavens and the earth endure, except as Your Lord wills. Verily, Your Lord is the doer of what He wills.
وَأَمَّا الَّذِينَ سُعِدُوا فَفِي الْجَنَّةِ خَالِدِينَ فِيهَا مَا دَامَتِ السَّمَاوَاتُ وَالأرْضُ إِلا مَا شَاءَ رَبُّكَ عَطَاءً غَيْرَ مَجْذُوذٍ (١٠٨)
108. and those who are blessed, they will be In Paradise, abiding therein for All the time that the heavens and the earth endure, except as Your Lord will, a gift without an end.
we have to thinking again with what will doing.yes..i know sometimes i feel like i wanna dying ..i cant hold anymore..about all the fear,painfull,angry,sadness, i hate that..and i have been tired of being all alone
i hate to crying..i wanna dying..but i have to realized that i should to faced it all..astagfirllah..
im a sinner so im not worth it to talk about like that..
try try try and try to be better people..it's hard..try to make people around me happy..try to make them not disapointed to me...yes people who i love..
im not ready to left this world even though its so hard but im not ready..what i have done???did they enough to i bring go to the beyond??
and i can answer : "nothing..still nothing what i had done before..and im still cant bring anything"
so i should to survive..keep fighting for my life
(In the Name of Allâh, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful.)
(QS. Huud: 106-108)
فَأَمَّا الَّذِينَ شَقُوا فَفِي النَّارِ لَهُمْ فِيهَا زَفِيرٌ وَشَهِيقٌ (١٠٦)
106. as for those who are wretched, they will be In the Fire, sighing In a High and low tone.
خَالِدِينَ فِيهَا مَا دَامَتِ السَّمَاوَاتُ وَالأرْضُ إِلا مَا شَاءَ رَبُّكَ إِنَّ رَبَّكَ فَعَّالٌ لِمَا يُرِيدُ (١٠٧)
107. they will Dwell therein for All the time that the heavens and the earth endure, except as Your Lord wills. Verily, Your Lord is the doer of what He wills.
وَأَمَّا الَّذِينَ سُعِدُوا فَفِي الْجَنَّةِ خَالِدِينَ فِيهَا مَا دَامَتِ السَّمَاوَاتُ وَالأرْضُ إِلا مَا شَاءَ رَبُّكَ عَطَاءً غَيْرَ مَجْذُوذٍ (١٠٨)
108. and those who are blessed, they will be In Paradise, abiding therein for All the time that the heavens and the earth endure, except as Your Lord will, a gift without an end.
we have to thinking again with what will doing.yes..i know sometimes i feel like i wanna dying ..i cant hold anymore..about all the fear,painfull,angry,sadness, i hate that..and i have been tired of being all alone
i hate to crying..i wanna dying..but i have to realized that i should to faced it all..astagfirllah..
im a sinner so im not worth it to talk about like that..
try try try and try to be better people..it's hard..try to make people around me happy..try to make them not disapointed to me...yes people who i love..
im not ready to left this world even though its so hard but im not ready..what i have done???did they enough to i bring go to the beyond??
and i can answer : "nothing..still nothing what i had done before..and im still cant bring anything"
so i should to survive..keep fighting for my life
Rabu, 16 Juni 2010
I am Jealous
emmmm u know about jealous?? jealous is cemburu or gelos or jaloers or eifersüchtig or jaloux whatever that but yeah jealous is jealous and i hate that feeling..u know what it make me wanna kill someone...arrghhhhhh shit....!! i know that feeling supposed there are in here..in the world..but when i feeling that arrrghhhh im going mad u know..ouhh shit..make me have to take deep breath like right now..
why people have to feel like this?????
hey u know what Jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, such as a relationship, friendship, or love. Jealousy often consists of a combination of emotions such as anger, sadness, and disgust. It is not to be confused with envy.
Jealousy is a familiar experience in human relationships. It has been observed in infants five months old and older.Some claim that jealousy is seen in every culture; however, others claim jealousy is a culture-specific phenomenon.
Jealousy as an emotion or the impact of jealousy has been a theme of many novels, songs, poems, films and other artistic works. It has also been a topic of interest for scientists, artists, and theologians. Psychologists have proposed several models of the processes underlying jealousy and have identified factors that result in jealousy. Sociologists have demonstrated that cultural beliefs and values play an important role in determining what triggers jealousy and what constitutes socially acceptable expressions of jealousy. Biologists have identified factors that may unconsciously influence the expression of jealousy. Artists have explored the theme of jealousy in photographs, paintings, movies, songs, plays, poems, and books.
and i'll learn it.. oke by the way i got a website about to stop being jealous .omggg i cant believe it..possibility i have to do follow this website to learn stop being jealous???
this is from website www.jealousnomore.com
^What jealousy really is and what you have to do to overcome it.
^When you are jealous, what are the two ways most people are jealous and how do you stop these two ways of being jealous from ruining your relationships?
^What is the negative belief that almost every couple has about being jealous that actually reinforces and perpetuates the feelings of jealousy?
^The single biggest thing you MUST do in order to STOP Being jealous in your relationships (This is not what you think)
^One simple mind-shift that you can do any time, any where, that can stop the jealous feelings cold in their tracks
^When being jealous is actually good for you and actually help make your relationships stronger
^And much, much more...
hahahhaha omg it's ridiculous hahaha
oke i will try to follow that was link...
omg oke..i have been learning one lesson from that was website..
emm i have to do something with my mind..yupss.. i know i have to rid all my negative thinking and then i know that i have to change from where i am now emotionally and
personally to being in a place where i am fervently wanting
something more (and better) for my relationships and my life.
Jealousy keeps i stuck and if left unhealed, can and very often
does ruin relationships.
Allowing jealousy to continue to be a problem is not a recipe
for a happy and successful life.
yupss i got it...
ok..so left it all about painful in ur past experience dini..yups and get the other ways for ur mind thinking...
haha bravoooo
why people have to feel like this?????
hey u know what Jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, such as a relationship, friendship, or love. Jealousy often consists of a combination of emotions such as anger, sadness, and disgust. It is not to be confused with envy.
Jealousy is a familiar experience in human relationships. It has been observed in infants five months old and older.Some claim that jealousy is seen in every culture; however, others claim jealousy is a culture-specific phenomenon.
Jealousy as an emotion or the impact of jealousy has been a theme of many novels, songs, poems, films and other artistic works. It has also been a topic of interest for scientists, artists, and theologians. Psychologists have proposed several models of the processes underlying jealousy and have identified factors that result in jealousy. Sociologists have demonstrated that cultural beliefs and values play an important role in determining what triggers jealousy and what constitutes socially acceptable expressions of jealousy. Biologists have identified factors that may unconsciously influence the expression of jealousy. Artists have explored the theme of jealousy in photographs, paintings, movies, songs, plays, poems, and books.
and i'll learn it.. oke by the way i got a website about to stop being jealous .omggg i cant believe it..possibility i have to do follow this website to learn stop being jealous???
this is from website www.jealousnomore.com
^What jealousy really is and what you have to do to overcome it.
^When you are jealous, what are the two ways most people are jealous and how do you stop these two ways of being jealous from ruining your relationships?
^What is the negative belief that almost every couple has about being jealous that actually reinforces and perpetuates the feelings of jealousy?
^The single biggest thing you MUST do in order to STOP Being jealous in your relationships (This is not what you think)
^One simple mind-shift that you can do any time, any where, that can stop the jealous feelings cold in their tracks
^When being jealous is actually good for you and actually help make your relationships stronger
^And much, much more...
hahahhaha omg it's ridiculous hahaha
oke i will try to follow that was link...
omg oke..i have been learning one lesson from that was website..
emm i have to do something with my mind..yupss.. i know i have to rid all my negative thinking and then i know that i have to change from where i am now emotionally and
personally to being in a place where i am fervently wanting
something more (and better) for my relationships and my life.
Jealousy keeps i stuck and if left unhealed, can and very often
does ruin relationships.
Allowing jealousy to continue to be a problem is not a recipe
for a happy and successful life.
yupss i got it...
ok..so left it all about painful in ur past experience dini..yups and get the other ways for ur mind thinking...
haha bravoooo
Selasa, 15 Juni 2010
lyric song Travie McCoy feat Bruno Mars -billionaire
[Bruno Mars]
I wanna be a billionaire so fricking bad
Buy all of the things I never had
Uh, I wanna be on the cover of Forbes magazine
Smiling next to Oprah and the Queen
[Chorus]
Oh every time I close my eyes
I see my name in shining lights
A different city every night oh
I swear the world better prepare
For when I’m a billionaire
[Travis "Travie" McCoy]
Yeah I would have a show like Oprah
I would be the host of, everyday Christmas
Give Travie a wish list
I’d probably pull an Angelina and Brad Pitt
And adopt a bunch of babies that ain’t never had sh-t
Give away a few Mercedes like here lady have this
And last but not least grant somebody their last wish
Its been a couple months since I’ve single so
You can call me Travie Claus minus the Ho Ho
Get it, hehe, I’d probably visit where Katrina hit
And damn sure do a lot more than FEMA did
Yeah can’t forget about me stupid
Everywhere I go Imma have my own theme music
[Chorus]
Oh every time I close my eyes
I see my name in shining lights
A different city every night oh
I swear the world better prepare
For when I’m a billionaire
Oh oooh oh oooh for when I’m a Billionaire
Oh oooh oh oooh for when I’m a Billionaire
[Travis "Travie" McCoy]
I’ll be playing basketball with the President
Dunking on his delegates
Then I’ll compliment him on his political etiquette
Toss a couple milli in the air just for the heck of it
But keep the fives, twentys (?) completely separate
And yeah I’ll be in a whole new tax bracket
We in recession but let me take a crack at it
I’ll probably take whatevers left and just split it up
So everybody that I love can have a couple bucks
And not a single tummy around me would know what hungry was
Eating good sleeping soundly
I know we all have a similar dream
Go in your pocket pull out your wallet
And put it in the air and sing
[Bruno Mars]
I wanna be a billionaire so fricking bad
Buy all of the things I never had
Uh, I wanna be on the cover of Forbes magazine
Smiling next to Oprah and the Queen
[Chorus]
I wanna be a billionaire so frickin bad..
I wanna be a billionaire so fricking bad
Buy all of the things I never had
Uh, I wanna be on the cover of Forbes magazine
Smiling next to Oprah and the Queen
[Chorus]
Oh every time I close my eyes
I see my name in shining lights
A different city every night oh
I swear the world better prepare
For when I’m a billionaire
[Travis "Travie" McCoy]
Yeah I would have a show like Oprah
I would be the host of, everyday Christmas
Give Travie a wish list
I’d probably pull an Angelina and Brad Pitt
And adopt a bunch of babies that ain’t never had sh-t
Give away a few Mercedes like here lady have this
And last but not least grant somebody their last wish
Its been a couple months since I’ve single so
You can call me Travie Claus minus the Ho Ho
Get it, hehe, I’d probably visit where Katrina hit
And damn sure do a lot more than FEMA did
Yeah can’t forget about me stupid
Everywhere I go Imma have my own theme music
[Chorus]
Oh every time I close my eyes
I see my name in shining lights
A different city every night oh
I swear the world better prepare
For when I’m a billionaire
Oh oooh oh oooh for when I’m a Billionaire
Oh oooh oh oooh for when I’m a Billionaire
[Travis "Travie" McCoy]
I’ll be playing basketball with the President
Dunking on his delegates
Then I’ll compliment him on his political etiquette
Toss a couple milli in the air just for the heck of it
But keep the fives, twentys (?) completely separate
And yeah I’ll be in a whole new tax bracket
We in recession but let me take a crack at it
I’ll probably take whatevers left and just split it up
So everybody that I love can have a couple bucks
And not a single tummy around me would know what hungry was
Eating good sleeping soundly
I know we all have a similar dream
Go in your pocket pull out your wallet
And put it in the air and sing
[Bruno Mars]
I wanna be a billionaire so fricking bad
Buy all of the things I never had
Uh, I wanna be on the cover of Forbes magazine
Smiling next to Oprah and the Queen
[Chorus]
I wanna be a billionaire so frickin bad..
Minggu, 06 Juni 2010
hard day
lately i was break with my boyfriend..it was 1 week..realy hard to through it..and full of confuse, hurt, afraid, but finaly im surrender and hopeless.i was realize that i have to accept all.even it's hurt.yup he need my answer..i will be with him or not next year..and i have been talk to him about faith.it's realy important to me and my family especialy my parent.they are religious..i was affraid.the fear like night mare for me.everyday..but i already confess to my boyfriend..it's realy hard.i felt like realy hopeless.i was down.my soul my heart is can't touch...i didn't know all like blowing out my mind i didn't know what i had to do..
he realy hate me..i know he was mad because what i did.i know he hurt because of me..because all the thing suck like that.make my brain drain..hurt honey i knew..u know when we were break almost everyday i was crying..crying and crying..thinking about all realy hard..it's not fair.why????and than i just could to pray to make me calm down and need help from God..just to show me what i had to do..
finaly my boyfriend can accept that and he was decision something realy important for me..make me calm.make me like im still have hopefull about us..so i think i should to dont give up..keep positif thinking..
yeah i should.
but today i was speak again with my boyfriend.i know he is afraid..but realy that make me down again..he wondering about my parent that will not give us permision to merried and life together.it's hurt but i know he was confuse about all.i know relationship like this is not normal like usualy people fallen in love..i know that.
but how we can know about all if we are not try something to first.but i know how he is like that..i know//im sory honey make me feel like this..
I LOVE u im sorry.be honest i dont wanna make u including in this part..u know i realy happy if i can be with u..and i will tell to my parent..but is not like just tell to them and then that's all..noooo i will being try to make them give us permission..realy..because i realy LOVE u..
iulian im sorry if sometimes i realy quiet if u tell to me something..not becoz of im not serious to u but that's becouse of my languege and i dont know i always speechless.fuck why i have to be like that..but what can i do..that's i am..
idiot shittt!!!!ouhh foolish
oke dont blame blame blame it...
this is big problem for me u know.but i realy dont regret that i love u and i know u.
did u know?this feeling is realy wonderfull..
what do u think why i can love u iulian and then i dont wanna lose u??
u know what is that?
because i feel it's not afair if we cant be together.i love u and u love me..u have good purpose ,planing..u wanna married me ,serious it's realy took my breath away..
i know we are defferent culture,skin,country so many much about deferent but only u can make me thinking about my future iulian and thinking how if realy i can be with u in my whole life.. strange..that what i feel sometimes..
u know iulian before i met u here..i was thinking that boys is suck for all.just can make me hurt, betray me,playing girls,lie to me,,huuhhhfff....but u was breaking that.
huuhhhffff almost morning but i cant sleep right know..im still thinking about u honey..about us..
tonight,cold but im not feeling that..i dont know but im going be mad like this..arrgghhhhhhhhhhhhh i wanna screaminggggggggggggggggggggggggg
i wanna dying realy..oh my god Allah..forgive me..i know im sinner..im not a perfect muslim..bad girl..but i wanna be better people god..i dont wanna make mistake like before..like my past..no more mistakes..i hate that..i wanna be better show me what i have to do for my life..
no one understand me ALLah only u know who i am..even myself i dont know.
he realy hate me..i know he was mad because what i did.i know he hurt because of me..because all the thing suck like that.make my brain drain..hurt honey i knew..u know when we were break almost everyday i was crying..crying and crying..thinking about all realy hard..it's not fair.why????and than i just could to pray to make me calm down and need help from God..just to show me what i had to do..
finaly my boyfriend can accept that and he was decision something realy important for me..make me calm.make me like im still have hopefull about us..so i think i should to dont give up..keep positif thinking..
yeah i should.
but today i was speak again with my boyfriend.i know he is afraid..but realy that make me down again..he wondering about my parent that will not give us permision to merried and life together.it's hurt but i know he was confuse about all.i know relationship like this is not normal like usualy people fallen in love..i know that.
but how we can know about all if we are not try something to first.but i know how he is like that..i know//im sory honey make me feel like this..
I LOVE u im sorry.be honest i dont wanna make u including in this part..u know i realy happy if i can be with u..and i will tell to my parent..but is not like just tell to them and then that's all..noooo i will being try to make them give us permission..realy..because i realy LOVE u..
iulian im sorry if sometimes i realy quiet if u tell to me something..not becoz of im not serious to u but that's becouse of my languege and i dont know i always speechless.fuck why i have to be like that..but what can i do..that's i am..
idiot shittt!!!!ouhh foolish
oke dont blame blame blame it...
this is big problem for me u know.but i realy dont regret that i love u and i know u.
did u know?this feeling is realy wonderfull..
what do u think why i can love u iulian and then i dont wanna lose u??
u know what is that?
because i feel it's not afair if we cant be together.i love u and u love me..u have good purpose ,planing..u wanna married me ,serious it's realy took my breath away..
i know we are defferent culture,skin,country so many much about deferent but only u can make me thinking about my future iulian and thinking how if realy i can be with u in my whole life.. strange..that what i feel sometimes..
u know iulian before i met u here..i was thinking that boys is suck for all.just can make me hurt, betray me,playing girls,lie to me,,huuhhhfff....but u was breaking that.
huuhhhffff almost morning but i cant sleep right know..im still thinking about u honey..about us..
tonight,cold but im not feeling that..i dont know but im going be mad like this..arrgghhhhhhhhhhhhh i wanna screaminggggggggggggggggggggggggg
i wanna dying realy..oh my god Allah..forgive me..i know im sinner..im not a perfect muslim..bad girl..but i wanna be better people god..i dont wanna make mistake like before..like my past..no more mistakes..i hate that..i wanna be better show me what i have to do for my life..
no one understand me ALLah only u know who i am..even myself i dont know.
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